Many individuals become distressed when they see others, especially children in poverty and living in harsh suffering conditions. Many helpers are serving them, but they can also be serving themselves. It depends upon what motives lay behind the scenes of why they are helping others. Unless you are ‘self-full’ and empowered in your own master-ship you like any other helper is just acting out the story of being the exchange feeders. The flow of energy is natural, whilst stuck energy is unnatural. Balance, worth, health, love and abundance is a nat ural process – it is within you. It is your choice to allow energy to flow and it is your choice to receive your natural rights for any desire you want. Therefore, when you raise your consciousness there is no need for you to give before you can receive or even no need to share for you are no longer in a stuck, limited and a low state of consciousness, where you will abuse, steal, feed off or take from others due to fear. Everybody has their natural gift within them, they all have choice and equal blessing to choose to play the dark or the light, the pleasant or the unpleasant, the sad or the joyful games. You already have that gift within you, that quality whenever you choose to claim and accept it and likewise, others in your community also have the choice to choose to accept and claim their own empowerment, gifts and abundance of life too when they are ready to.
To address the issue on giving and receiving, can be broken down into 4 main categories.
1. Giving without Consent
2. Take Away Their Experiences
3. Rebel Like Hot-Headed Teenagers
4. There Are No Mistakes
Let’s take a look at each individual category:
1. Giving Without Consent- It is not up to you to give to others without another’s consent or permission. Enforcing your generosity upon others through fear or pity or allowing others to be dependent not only dishonours them and their journey but you display a lack of true compassion because you are only helping others to fulfil your fearful agendas. Giving without consent, is only feeding you and it disempowers them because they are losing their right to claim their own self-mastery. You only need to give to others when they give you their permission for you to do so – i.e. when they ask for your help and blessing. Every person is playing their story role according to their level of consciousness. They can choose to claim and own their rights for whatever they desire instead of expecting others to give them handouts. Giving through obligation or pity disempowers the one who is forced to receive because fear controls and manipulates and it suppresses their freedom, sovereignty and independence.
2. Take Away Their Experiences – When you enforce your help onto others you are taking away their right to gain wisdom from the experiences that they have chosen to act out and play with. Consciousness can only grow and evolve from an individual gaining self-awareness, wisdom, understanding, acceptance, compassion and insights created from experiencing their own experiences. When you take away that experience even if it may seem bad or unpleasant, they miss out from having that experience in which they lack receiving the wisdom that would have allowed their consciousness to grow and expand.
3. Rebel Like Hot-Headed Teenagers – When you forcefully give to others they will often rebel like hot-headed teenagers, because at their core, they need to experience something, no matter how ugly it appears to be. It is only the wisdom from the experience that will inspire their consciousness, that is the only way they will learn because humanity in general believes that experience is the hard teacher and everyone has to suffer – ‘no pain, no gain’ is the only way to learn. Helping others without their permission disempowers them, it makes them dependent, so there is a two way feeding mechanism going on.
4. There Are No Mistakes – At the core of every experience, there is no right or wrong, there are no mistakes. The human condition may see something as pleasant or unpleasant, good or bad, right or wrong, but that is duality at play. Every scenario is just an experience in order for you to learn, grow and evolve so that you can inspire and expand your consciousness.
When someone controls you so that you only experience what they want you to experience, you miss the boat, you miss out on the opportunity to learn from the choices that you would have made. It keeps you stuck. When you don’t learn from what you choose to experience, those same old repetitive experiences keeps haunting you. All energy seeks resolution, so when you allow someone to take away your experiences that stuck energy, being self-seeking will return until you learn from that experience.
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