Love Beyond Circumstance

Our world has taught us that our lives are incomplete until we have found one person to love, our ideal mate and the person who we were meant to spend our entire lives with. It has conditioned the expansive and infinite energy of love. A sadness that is loneliness surrounds so many people because of this conditional perspective. It directly and indirectly causes many to shut out the other faces of love which show up every single day within our lives; the affections of friendship, the bonds of siblings and parents, the connections of family, the generosity of kind acts from random strangers. There is an immense overflow of love which surrounds us every single moment and it is missed because so many are waiting for the love of one person; the love of a soul mate.

Waiting to allow the giving and receiving of love is living within the boundaries of circumstance and prohibiting the fulfillment which accompanies learning to love beyond circumstance. We create so often reasons we cannot love yet and reasons we cannot be happy yet. All it is does is allow circumstance to dictate the quality of life. A sunny day is a circumstance; it should not stop you from loving. A rainy day is a circumstance; it should not stop you from loving. Life mastery is attained through constantly allowing oneself to be larger than anything and everything that is external of oneself. Everything which is outside of you cannot be controlled and therefore what is external should not be allowed to control what feelings reside within you. Circumstances should never be allowed to cut off the unlimited supply of joy and love that is ever present within you.

Attaching conditions to love removes the beauty from the experience of altruism and unconditional love. Our conditions bare the words “if” and “but” and it is mostly warranted to the fact that we fear unconditional love more than most other things. How often have you heard someone say, “I will love if…”, “I love them but…”, “If you love me then…”? They are all limits, boundaries and conditions to love. It is my belief that conditioning love always results in pain because lasting love is free of all circumstance and condition. In its truest form, all love is eternal love. In order to experience infinite love, it requires uninhabited expression and freedom to be boundless. Instead of fearing heartbreak, anticipate reckless abandon and how joyful it is to be free to love to your heart’s content.

Yes! It takes courage and strength to face the fear of loving without expectation and condition, but realising that it is the conditions and expectations we attach to love that causes the pain we fear is the ultimate teacher in learning to love beyond circumstance and limit. Heartbreak should not be feared because it can be healed. Fear of heartbreak should never outweigh the capacity every human heart has to love. Fear is not something we are born with, we teach it to ourselves. Love is the innate ability we are born with and the capacity to which we can allow ourselves to express it is infinite.

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