by: Steve Gillman
By watching what they are watching, you can learn a lot about people. What kind of women does a man look at? Does he pay any attention to the game on the TV? Note whether he seems bored or interested as he looks at different things.
Eye watching tricks – part two. You can tell what people’s minds are doing when they are thinking or asked to remember something, according to neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) practitioners. This following is true for most right handed people (reverse all this for left-handed people): As you face them, and their eyes go…
Up and to the right – They are remembering a visual image.
Up and to the left – They are constructing a visual image.
To the right – They are remembering sounds or conversation.
To the left – The are constructing sounds or conversations.
Down and to the right – They are in an internal dialog.
Down and to the left – They are accessing kinesthetic feelings, tastes and smells.
Eye Tricks And The Opposite Sex
A persons pupils get bigger when they are aroused, interested and/or receptive. If you look into his or her eyes and see those pupils growing large – it’s looking good for you. Basically big pupils (unless it’s just dark) mean a person likes what they see.
It isn’t just what you see, though, but what you imagine too. Try an experiment to understand how immediate this effect can be. Go right now and look in the mirror at your own eyes. As you look at them, imagine a sexy man or woman you are attracted to – in whatever way would turn you on.
You’ll see that your pupils get bigger in just seconds. Actually, if you love to fish, they may get big just thinking about a lake you love. Imagining anything you like to look at can make your pupils bigger.
You’ll find that you can quickly train yourself to change your pupil size at will. Just find a mental image or two that gets them really big, and use these as necessary. Look at a light briefly when you want to shrink your pupils back down. Now, how do you use this eye trick?
First, understand that we all unconsciously use little clues like pupil size as we interact with people. We are affected by people’s body language even when we haven’t yet learned to identify it. There are reasons why we are attracted to a person, even when we don’t know what those reasons are.
In other words – the person in front of you will unconsciously pick upon your enlarging pupils. They will unconsciously take this to mean that you like them, and for many people, this will make them like you more. By enlarging your pupils at will, you can effectively establish rapport more quickly. This is one of the easier subliminal eye tricks.