How to Avoid Conflict and Aggressive Situations: Establish Confidence
by: Dave Robus
Aggressive human beings use threats, violent actions, shouting, swearing loudly etc in order to dominate. They can resort to cheating tactics, deceit, or sly forms of negotiation to obtain whatever dominence they think fit for themselves.
Brutality in humans is often seen as a form of a evil passion which is appeased by the shedding of other peoples’ blood, destruction of their belongings and the designed collapse of the world around them.
Agrression and violence appears only to bring on more violence rather than decrease it. The offender who normally is totally lacking emotion during violence, simply views his intended victim as an object, thus reducing the chances of feeling empathy, and therefore allowing the offender to belittle or hurt the victim, sometimes to the terrible extent of death.
Verbal aggression, which doesn’t necessarily involve violence or injury to others’, is the offensive use of the voice to destroy confidence. This in turn can lead to great stress for the aggressed and if put into a situation where they feel trapped they could resort to violence in return.
In most cases dominance aggression occurs mainly in males which is very obvious by the amount of women’s shelters around since the turn of the century.This male dominent form of aggression often can worsen after punishment for previous previous misdemeanours.
It also seems to run in family lines, such as brothers’ who are the offspring of a violent father. Dominance aggression will normally be directed at women, but quite often is directed towards children and animals.
Individuals that seem to be frustrated in achieving their aims often resort to aggression of varying forms. These people normally aim their anger in the direction of whoever happens to be standing in their way or passing by at the time.
If we know how to avoid conflict, we can all benefit, even the aggressor, although they do not necessarily appreciate it at first. The usual cost of not avoiding conflict however is real misery and discomfort or even injury, because we cannot see any other way out and therefore we end up feeling even worse.
Everyone deserves to know how to avoid aggression and conflict in order to lead a perfectly normal, happy and peaceful life.
Behaviour which is solely aimed at causing psychological harm, real harm, pain, personal injury or physical and emotional loss can now be dealt with by everyone. There is no need for suffering of any kind, whether physical or mental to be endured.
An aggressive nature in others is one the most common behaviour problems known today. It is naturally, a well established defense mechanism, but it also destroys and eradicates humans, causing the destruction of everyone and everything natural, both in man, beast and the world.
The hostile behaviour used to make attempts at domination, whether of man, woman, child or beast no longer need be tolerated and the overt behaviour which can impart damage and hurt, the feeling of fright, or just total lack confidence in an individual can be very easily overcome.